A record of the genealogy of Jesus Christ the son of David…Abraham was the father of …David was the father of…Jacob the father of Joseph the husband of Mary, of whom was born Jesus, who is called Christ. Matthew 1:1-17
I encountered a woman just over a week ago. She was standing in the lobby of an adoption agency. She quietly rocked from side to side about the room. She was waiting for her husband to pull the car around. She held her son. He was about 12 days old and slept in her arms. He had, only moments before, rightfully joined their family.
She didn’t have much to say. I think she and I both knew that if she tried to talk, not only words would come but tears as well. This boy in her arms was her long awaited son and he was finally and forever coming home.
She and her son did not share the same race. They looked nothing alike. This boy had a different father than the man whom he will call Daddy. This sweet baby boy had just been legally adopted.
When you see this happen, when you get to witness the power of this experience, it will drop you to your knees in awe of the power of the very moment, the beauty of love that transcends blood lines and shared features and traits. Both parties have waited so long, both parties are blessed by the sacrifice of one who gave life, hope, and opportunity. One sweet woman sacrifices and from it three others get the gift of fullness of life. It’s just overwhelming.
And that boy is now her son, the new mommy rocks back and forth with this child who is now and forever, every bit, her son. He will eat with them, sleep in their home, enjoy the benefits of family and love and heritage and inheritance. He is her son.
Adoption is powerful. It crosses racial boundaries, it infuses blood lines, it transcends history and science and hospital records.
And that’s not just how the family sees it.
Jesus Christ was the Son of the Living God. He was born of the virgin Mary by the power of the Holy Spirit. This Christ was to be of the line of David. Do you see where I’m going with this? Through whose lineage was this Child connected to King David? Was it through Mary, His only human parent? No, in God’s eyes, He had another parent. There was no blood connection, there was no shared facial feature, but He was his Son. By the power of adoption, this Christ was the Son of a Davidic man named Joseph. And God saw this adoption as so binding and so real and so all-encompassing that it was good enough to fulfill prophecy. Joseph’s adoptive Son was the Christ of the Davidic line.
God knew a bit about adoption. He still does.
Many adoptive families celebrate ‘Gotcha Day’ – the day when their child joined their forever family. Technically these are called Placements. They’re a pretty big deal. God sees Placements every day. Every day is a Gotcha Day among the angels.
For He chose us in Him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in His sight. In love He predestined us to be adopted as His sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with His pleasure and will–to the praise of His glorious grace. Ephesians 1:4-6
I am the daughter of the God Most High. My adoption is binding and powerful and all-encompassing and my inheritance and position are sure and profound. Sons and daughters are not given away or passed over, they are not tossed out when sin creeps in and they aren’t withheld love when it isn’t actively returned. True sons and daughters are as good as blood, they are the real deal, they are powerfully and forever bound to the Father with whom they have had a Placement.
This Christ, born to an adoptive dad and a child mom, whose birth was lowly, whose appearance so breathtaking in it’s surprise, this Child is my Brother. My big Brother at that. And in this family, I belong. I fit in and am welcomed. I’m seen as valuable and useful and beautiful and loved.
I am the daughter of the Lord of all Creation, the Almighty Maker of Heaven and Earth, the God Most High. He’s my Dad and in Him I belong.
